A huge part of what animates homophobia among young people is paranoia and fear of their own capacity to be gay themselves. – Dan Savage
Really, when it comes to gay rights, theres two wars going on. The first war is political. But the culture war is over. – Dan Savage
My dad was a homicide cop in the gay neighborhood in the city when gay neighborhoods were desperate, depressing, sad places run by the mob. The only gay people hed met when I came out to him were corpses. – Dan Savage
The cultural expectation should be if theres infidelity, the marriage is more important than fidelity. – Dan Savage