Think of your own faults the first part of the night when you are awake, and of the faults of others the latter part of the night when you are asleep. – Chinese Proverb
The fire you kindle for your enemy often burns yourself more than him. – Chinese Proverb
Enough shovels of earth — a mountain. Enough pails of water — a river. – Chinese Proverb
Thinking more than others about our own thoughts is not self-centeredness. It means that if asked whats on our mind, we are less likely to mention being aware of the world around us, and more likely to mention our inner reflections. But we are less likely to mention thinking about other people. – Elaine N. Aron