Create your own method. Dont depend slavishly on mine. Make up something that will work for you! But keep breaking traditions, I beg you. – Constantin Stanislavski
Woman is fine for her own satisfaction alone. No man will admire her the more, no woman will like her the better for it. Neatness and fashion are enough for the former, and a something of shabbiness or impropriety will be most endearing to the latter. – Jane Austen