My personal belief is that you carry your own water in a relationship. If you see a girl and you think shes hot, thats a very human reaction, but you dont go and tell your spouse that, you know? So in one way its how you behave. – Mark Ruffalo
I think of marriage as a garden. You have to tend to it. Respect it, take care of it, feed it. Make sure everyone is getting the right amount of, um, sunlight. – Mark Ruffalo