I believe that you control your destiny, that you can be what you want to be. You can also stop and say, No, I wont do it, I wont behave his way anymore. Im lonely and I need people around me, maybe I have to change my methods of behaving, and then you do it. – Leo Buscaglia
There are two big forces at work, external and internal. We have very little control over external forces such as tornadoes, earthquakes, floods, disasters, illness and pain. What really matters is the internal force. How do I respond to those disasters? Over that I have complete control. – Leo Buscaglia