Quotes by

Erich Fromm

Mans biological weakness is the condition of human culture. – Erich Fromm

Greed is a bottomless pit which exhausts the person in an endless effort to satisfy the need without ever reaching satisfaction. – Erich Fromm

What most people in our culture mean by being lovable is essentially a mixture between being popular and having sex appeal. – Erich Fromm

The kind of relatedness to the world may be noble or trivial, but even being related to the basest kind of pattern is immensely preferable to being alone. – Erich Fromm

If I am what I have and if I lose what I have who then am I? – Erich Fromm

We live in a world of things, and our only connection with them is that we know how to manipulate or to consume them. – Erich Fromm

Integrity simple means not violating ones own identity. – Erich Fromm

The task we must set for ourselves is not to feel secure, but to be able to tolerate insecurity. – Erich Fromm

Mans main task in life is to give birth to himself, to become what he potentially is. The most important product of his effort is his own personality. – Erich Fromm

Love is union with somebody, or something, outside oneself, under the condition of retaining the separateness and integrity of ones own self. – Erich Fromm

The mother-child relationship is paradoxical and, in a sense, tragic. It requires the most intense love on the mothers side, yet this very love must help the child grow away from the mother, and to become fully independent. – Erich Fromm

Immature love says: I love you because I need you. Mature love says I need you because I love you. – Erich Fromm

The ordinary man with extraordinary power is the chief danger for mankind – not the fiend or the sadist. – Erich Fromm

There is no meaning to life except the meaning man gives his life by the unfolding of his powers. – Erich Fromm

The successful revolutionary is a statesman, the unsuccessful one a criminal. – Erich Fromm

The most beautiful as well as the most ugly inclinations of man are not part of a fixed biologically given human nature, but result from the social process which creates man. – Erich Fromm

There is hardly any activity, any enterprise, which is started out with such tremendous hopes and expectations, and yet which fails so regularly, as love. – Erich Fromm

Love is often nothing but a favorable exchange between two people who get the most of what they can expect, considering their value on the personality market. – Erich Fromm

If a person loves only one other person and is indifferent to all others, his love is not love but a symbiotic attachment, or an enlarged egotism. – Erich Fromm

In love the paradox occurs that two beings become one and yet remain two. – Erich Fromm